{
  pkgs,
  use-iwd ? false,
}:
{
  networking.networkmanager = {
    enable = true;
    dhcp = "dhcpcd";
    wifi.backend = if use-iwd then "iwd" else "wpa_supplicant";
  };
  networking.nameservers = [ "8.8.8.8" ];
  networking.resolvconf.enable = true;
  networking.resolvconf.dnsExtensionMechanism = false; # edns seems to be fucky with this enabled

  # TODO: maybe this should be optional
  services.syncthing = {
    enable = true;
    openDefaultPorts = true;

    # run daemon with my user
    user = "xenia";
    group = "users";
    configDir = "/home/xenia/.local/state/syncthing";
    dataDir = "/home/xenia/";

    settings = {
      services.syncthing.settings.options.urAccepted = 1;
      devices = {
        "foxhut" = {
          addresses = [ "tcp://10.100.1.1" ];
          id = "RTWKTX2-OG5DDRL-GWRWYMT-KQWUQCE-IPB3NNR-3DFJBNO-V4OI2HU-B2HPOAD";
        };
        "gender-station" = {
          addresses = [ "tcp://10.100.1.3" ];
          id = "R7CUIAA-GOORP7Z-QCGZ2VK-MM5WCBK-O6BKFYM-7WQOF4U-MXCQZSU-WES3ZAM";
        };
      };
      folders = {
        "Music" = {
          path = "/home/xenia/Music";
          devices = [ "foxhut" ];
        };
      };
    };
  };

}